When I was flying back from Las Vegas the other day, I came across an article in Sports Illustrated by Rick Reilly, which discusses an incident that occured in a recent 9-10 year old PONY baseball game. For the record, I do not like Reilly's commentary, though generally well-written and interesting, because to me, Reilly comes across as being very pompous, arrogant and judgmental. In a recent story, he villified a high school football officiating crew for refusing to allow a legless player to play, without taking into consideration the impact of bringing negative national attention onto a high school referee or taking into account the safety and liability issues that the crew faced that night. In that case, had the kid gotten hurt, Reilly would've written an article about how stupid the coaches and officials were for letting a legless player play. My problem with Reilly is that he's a very hypocritical individual who is quick to an opinion which is not very well thought out. It is true in the PONY case and the football one, and in my opinion, the press that he gets is a contributing factor to the decline of the traditional values of youth and high school sports and the increasing softness being associated with them.
To summarize, the Reilly article focused on a situation in Utah during a PONY league championship game. It was the bottom of the last inning with the defensive team up a run with a runner on 3rd and two outs with the best hitter up, a slugger capable of hitting a homerun. On deck was a tiny cancer survivor with a shunt in his brain. The coaching staff of the defensive team chose to intentionally walk the best hitter on the team, and, supposedly with tears in his eyes, the cancer survivor struck out to end the game. Reilly contends that this was a travesty, an example of extremely poor sportsmanship, quoting the cancer survivor's father as saying, "It's like going after the weakest chick in the flock." I disagree, I think it was absolutely the right move, and more so, the morally correct decision by the coaching staff.
As a high school baseball coach, my philosophy first in coaching players is to develop people and to be a leader. I demand effort from my players, and the players have a right to demand of their coach, at any level, that they are put in the best position to succeed, both as individuals and as a team. In my opinion, it would have been a disservice to the players who played all season for me, came to the practices and worked hard to make it to the championship game, for me to put their season in jeopardy by deciding that they had to face the best hitter instead of one who is likely to be an easy out.
The more prudent question in this PONY is why was the cancer where he was to begin with? Clearly his position in the lineup did not take into account his best interests given his physical condition. Should he even have been playing? In regards to the kid's position in the lineup, it was very irresponsible for the coach to put the worst hitter behind the best hitter simply because having to protect the best hitter is a tough spot. Clearly, the kid was not able physically, or mentally, to handle it. There's always talk about why the worst player gets "hidden" in right field in Little League, and that's simply because that's the best spot for him to have a chance to succeed. Put the kid at shortstop, he physically couldn't handle the failure, and probably couldn't deal with it mentally, so the kid would quit in all likelyhood.
Our current society has placed a premium value on participation, and has instituted participation rules, and while there's some logic to it at the lowest levels, it does not take into account what's best for the kids involved all the time. The problem with mandatory participation rules is that they discourage hard work, foster a sense of entitlement and they put kids in a position to fail. It's no fun to sit on the bench, but it's less fun to consistently fail and be unable to compete and to consistently let your teammates down. I fully believe in the concept of throwing people into the fire, but they have to at least possess some of the tools as well as the mental ability to compete. Today's mentality is more like, "My Jimmy is gonna play and play where he wants because we paid to be a part of this league/to go to this school." When a kid like this cancer survivor plays, yeah, it might be an inspiration to his parents, but the kid could not handle the game, so it really isn't fair to either him or his team for him to be out there.
Youth sports are about fun and sportsmanship, but there is also a very significant value that we are losing, and that's the ability to compete. Any time, no matter how young the kids, there is a league set up and a championship game, winning the championship should be the team's goal, and winning games should be a top priority. To say winning and losing at this level isn't important is wrong, wins and losses are always important, and only get more important as athletes climb the ladder to high school, then college and eventually the pros. Competition is a key value in life, and winning as a goal should not be set aside by anyone. Anyone who says that it's about the fun and not about winning is not a winner. Sure you can have fun on a losing team, but those experiences are more about being a part of a team, and really have nothing to do with the games themselves. One of the worst things I think you can do as a kid is coddle them with entitlements and teach them to ignore, rather than to address failure. Participation rules punish the talented players and prevent the weaker players from growing as players and people, depriving them of valuable tools to succeed because they teach kids that feeling good is more important than competing and winning.
Finally, as coaches, our role is to further the kids and the game. Villifying coaches for wanting to win is wrong. Kids will remember when they win championships their entire lives, and the coach has an obligation to, within the rules, do his best to allow that to happen. Coaches need to be role models and prepare players for the next level, and life in general in exactly the same way that teachers in the classroom do. The sad thing in America is that 60 percent of the country polled side with Rick Reilly, saying that the kid should never have been walked. One of the great things about sports in general and especially baseball is that you cannot hide, you will be tested and everyone who plays the game will be humbled at some time. If any player, at any level can't handle the challenge of being "picked on" either mentally or physically, that player should not be in the game. The player was set up to fail. Period. Because to not walk the star would mean that the weak player can hide behind the star and skirt by under the radar. That is not a good quality or value for an individual in life, and kids who are instilled with such values will have many more problems later in life than just striking out with the championship on the line in a 9-10 year old baseball game.